Who Should Be "A" Leader's Favourite ?

Hello Good People,

It is not a good idea for a leader to spend his time pursuing people who don't yield results or just slow down the ship.

20% of people are responsible for 100% of fruitful result in most organisation hence the 20% are Favourites..
 
The 80% who are redundant are Humans, loved and celebrated but can never be Productive Favourites

A Leaders Favourite are the KEYMEN in there sector in any organisation.

One Lawyer refused to dismiss a very rude and naughty staff cos he said the Staff brings in most of the Customers hence the "Money" to the organisation.

Jesus had favorites
They were fishermen and not Billionaires,
He had the 120
The 70
The 12
The 3
The 1

He changed this world wit His favourite 12 people ( one of them actually sold Him off too )

So, AS LEADERS SPEND MORE TIME WITH THOSE WHO DO 100% of the work and encourage the other fellows.

The Work Space is not an EMOTIONAL space hence as Leaders we tend to FOCUS on the TASK & GOALS and TRAIN PLUS ENCOURAGE THOSE WHO ARE READY TO WORK & BE PRODUCTIVE.

The other COMPLACENT ones are appreciated but
If we went by Scriptures and wanted to avoid what happened to Moses to happen to us ( the complacents bad mouthed him and nearly.sent him to hell ) we would deploy wisdom...

Exodus 18 shows some being made Captains and others remained followers ( NO EMOTIONS )

HENCE,  !
My Favourite(s) should be those...

or would you rather my favourites to be Joseph of Arimathea or Zacheaus ?

What do you think ?
#BanjoOre

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HOW ARE YOU CHOOSING WHO TO MARRY ?

Was having a conversation with a protegee and we hit "a spot"
about relationship compatibility and people looking good together ( physical wise ) and am like..
What does it mean to " Look Good Together ? "

Anyway, I can't speak for others but this is how I "Chose my Wife "  call me old school, bizarre, a christian / secular contraption or wharreffaaaaa ! Lolll

Pls Read and kindly drop your Comments ( Guys tell us how you chose your wife please )

"Dig In....
Was deliberate wiv wat I saw....

1. Committedly Born Again
2. We were veryyyy Chatty ( gist for hours )
3. She understands Vision and had one ( I tot she heard and stole my vision sef cos it sounded lyk mine, )
4. Loved her demeanour
5. Fresh and no B.O
6. Big sized mammary Glands from what I "SAW' lol ( what I wanted pls )
6. Small waist line
7. Enticing Backside
8. Petit in Nature ( not short ooOo ) Graced to meet that in the package. ( lyk Smith & Jada )
8. Great family background / pedigree
9. Healthy and we had compatible health

++++Pls Note the above did not happen in a month took time
 ( tink ova 2 years. )

*****so why wouldn't I want to marry her.
Everything checked out d more we related and courted.

If I had discovered a Big Flaw when we courted or were friends, I would have backed out with Wisdom.

Ofcos she didn't have everything I wanted but the major ones she had was enough for her to qualify to be my wife...

What didn't she have ? Lol ( you set ehnnn )

1. singing  voice ( tot I couldn't marry a woman lyk dat. )
2. No swaggered cat walk ( well, its not in d Bible either )
3. She didn't have a great Job that could sustain my ministry then ( lol ) you know us Guys na..  But, its not Biblical either
4. She wasn't the pancake makeup type just fresh faced natural sister ( well, all that has changed )
5. She was grammatically sound and all that but her accent "WAS" a King James Englished "Academic One"... Nothing Tush ( all now different )
6. E don do you now loooolll...


So.... That's how I CHOSE my Wife and Went on to marry her OOooooooo.

Was is it that easy and simple like that ? Lol
Am sorry for you..
You bet it was NOT THAT SIMPLE ( DO GREAT THINGS COME ON A PLATTER OF GOLD ? )

My Wife's Reverend Pastor shakeeeeee me and my faith OOooo, hummmm.
But all Glory be to Jesus.
All don make sense now..
Wisdom , Grace, Favour, Counsel etc... Has helped us
#12yrs oooOONNN  Praise God.



so sister, Oya ARRANGE well in Christ,  Character & Competence make correct brother come find you...

Brother, A Javelin awaits you if you don't know "what time is it" aspa "sourcing" for the right woman and "hearing' God on the matter.

Please drop your comment !
Cheers.

GOING BEYOND AVAILABILITY IN LEADERSHIP...

______As.a.Leadership Enthusiast & Protagonist , Leadership is so very important.and URGENTLY needed in our.world today.

A very good spirit filled Christian can be a very bad.leader.

Most people never really.get to.the.LEADERSHIP phase.of thier.life, they had.rather believed.a.lie.about.the fact.that.they.are.followers.for.life since:-
1. they are.not.pastors
2. dont have cash ( millionare or.something )
3. few.people.recognise.or.know.them

etc.....

but tbis.is.far from.the.truth.


...being a Pastor, Apostle, Evangelist, Teacher or.Prpphet.does not.make.anyone.a.Leader ( well.maybe a.spiritual.leader of some sort.leading other Christians )
...but.such.leadership.does.not.go higher.than the ceiling.

Most.Leaders.in MOST Churches.might be named.such.maybe 'cos.their.are no.better.alternatives?
or MOST IMPORTANTLY.because.they.are AVAILABLE.

Globally RELEVANT LEADERS have all.gone beyond.being."AVAILABLE" and have asked themselves questions

"Where.am.I.being needed.mostly ? "
"What.Solutions should I be.bringing.to.the team ? "
"AM I DOING ENOUGH ? "
etc....

Leadership is MORE than remaining within the CONFINES of availability, comfortability & being recognised...

LEADERSHIP is RESPONSIBILITY
Leadership is having INITIATIVE
LEADERSHIP is Accountability
Leadership is ACHIEVING..

Leaders build people up
LEADERS EQUIP
LEADERS STRENGTHEN

Leaders should be Godly

Leaders:
Multiply
MENTOR
are Momentum cReators
Mobilise

and most.certainly Leaders MODEL what they are teaching


The.WORLD needs more Leaders
be the hero
their is "one " in you

Lead where you are.
©BanjoOre

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How SHOULD "Pastors" look like ?

So, Howz a Pastor supposed to really look like?
...... NOPE !, am not talking about "internal things"

but...  How should we look like? "facade"  ( if u like.that.word )
what should.we.project ?
what.do you want to see ?


How do you.measure.the "humility" of someone
as against their beautiful attire / bespoke looks ?

Must a person look poor & scrubby to be judged "humble"

If a "Pastor" grew up in diplomatic circles &  a well "manicured"
"Tush".& well buttered up neighbourhood...
is he.now.supposed.to."TONE" down all this & adopt
a."paupered".or.even agraRIAN lifestyle because.of.what."PEOPLE SAY"
or.will.say ?

If we all conform to.the.whims & caPRICES of a few..
and remain "underdogs" that we.did not grow up as !!
DOES THAT NOT.LOOK & SOUND LIKE A.PLOY ?
of.some.sort.

What.exactly am.I.saying?
defending "Us".. lol
neverRRRRR

Just Communicating my thoughts on this...
( I actually.have read.other.people's opinions on.social media )


ma bad @spellingIshs & punctuation pls.

"HOLD IT" just before you say " I DO "

Dont start your life by making yourself a 2nd class citizen in your home...
Dont  MARRY someone you will struggle so hard to please in the union,
dnt even agree to court such people.

Why ?
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Compatibility Issues are GREAT ISSUES in Marriage
Religious
Doctrinal
Culture
Social
Environmental
and other seemingly light "no big.deal issues "

Compatibility means : Someone you can easily interact and align with etc...
Hence, dis is a big deal issue cos you gonn live together for the rest of your life...

No POINT running helter skelter in MARRIAGE to handle what you should have seen in courtship

SO....
my dear,
wipe that ice-cream away from your lips
let that your dimple fade off for a while
Pull yourelf to.a.Conference.table  and DISCUSS OBJECTIVELY before you "merge" your companies lol. ( merge your life )

Ask :
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Can we do this?
are we gonna remain friends for ever ?
what are we going to be doing in the marriage ?
whats your Vision sir?
what will you be doing when I marry you sis ?

Possible Response:
---------------------------------
I wont always be this slim Oooooo
Am thinking of starting a Farm project and exiting my Oil & Gas Job so CashFlow is going to change Ooooo sis, are you still on board ? etc....

Conclusion :
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Don't let Marriage open your eyes to some realities
what you see and hear around you about.Marriages.are TRUE ( not fiction )

Might not all be strawberries & breakfast in bed Oooooo,
So, before you say "I Do "

"have that Conference Table TALK "
You are the.CEO.of your life under God
You.have.the.RIGHT.to get "Answers" before you get into a Life "Partnership " with.somebody you just few years back...

Talk, talk and talk about.it..
#ClarityIsNeeded

Love was never ever blind...
cheers
Snippets from my Book#BanjoOre.

Happy Wedding Anniversary babe...

Pst Yinka Ore

Choosing you was #INTENTIONAL
and I have never looked back,
There aint no "had I known" 

You are the exact #DEFINATION
of an "helpmate" / Life-Partner

Happy 10th Wedding Anniversary Yinka Ajiboye
Lets
Know More
Be More
and keep doing more.

I Love You dearlyyyyyyyyyyyy
Mwarhhhhhhhhhhhhh

#YinkaOre

Build... #Faith #Skills #Achieve

eDIFy...

Four (4) Power Tips you NEED as a "SPEAKER"

Hi, bIN a while guys & I know it...
I am getting bored of blogging even tough I still love writing a looooottttt.
So, very soon am gonn get into Video bloging ( Its like saying in minutes what I ought to write about )
Why?
well, Why Not ?

Today's Menu
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Well, I have been "Speaking" actively for about 15yrs. so I tot to share a little of what I have learnt...

So, the Tips !!
dive in...

" 1. Ask yourself  "WHAT EXACTLY DO I WANT PEOPLE TO (GET) TAKE AWAY FROM MY SPEECH ? pre-determine this.

2. CUT YOUR INTRODUCTION TO THREE MINUTES.... ( cos, your audience aint got no time )

3. DIVE INTO THE MENU IMMEDIATELY ( don't loose their attention)
SAY SOMETHING to make them wanna.make Eye Contact with you: then, Fire the first thoughts and REPEAT. REPEAT and kip REPEATING the Power Speeches / Phrases and all


4. Certainly LAND & FINISH WELL ( cut ramblings and STILL FOCUS on MAJOR MESSAGE )

"GRACEFULLY TELL THEM WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO GO & DO "
and dont forget to end Gloriously ( leave the exact taste you.wanna.leave in the mouth of your audience that will provoke the right actions hence justify your speech )

Showing Love is NOT a WEAKNESS

LEADERSHIP

Howdie bloggie, bin a while...
be back shortly.

Happy Birthday, Mamarazeeeee, Something is About to Happen !!!

You are unique       
classique
fantastic
and never a dullardstic

Special in your way
hence your creator is
Greatly to be praised

Priceless
and no doubt full of Graces

Have a Wonderful Birthday
and this Your NEW YEAR
is gonna be loaded...


I hear a sound of pleasant rains
on your behalf
So, Prepare to Enlarge your barns
expand your coast
'cos Something is About to Happeennnnnn.....


Love you baby girl
Happy Birthday big beautiful Model sister of mine.
Mwarrrhhhhhhh !!!

#CONNECT #STAYINFORMED #SHARE

STRICTLY FOR PRACTICING CHRISTIANS **Of Homosexuals,Lesbians, Transgenders etc...

How does it help
how do we help
when "Christians" abuse & crucify homosexuals/ lesbians & transgenders?
especially ( in public.& on social media)

Maybe if we do that in our discipleship class or something it might be okay !!

but publicly? How have we helped?
are we not adding fuel to the raging inferno?
has our CRITICSMS birthed / showed the love of Jesus?
Am just wondering?

Are we mad at them or their sins? 

dont we all know or have as friends, uncles, relatives etc...
people who
rape
beat up wifey?
incest
marry 9 year olds
drink to stupor
embezzle public funds
sleep with anything in skirts
rituals  etc etc.....

Are we saying "ONE SIN" is greater than the.other & the other sins.should be "Excused" ?

Have we even "Prayed" for any of this people?
am not exactly innocent myself
but am #JustThinkingAloud.

#WWJD

Lets Magnify & stress the "The Love of Jesus Christ" moreeeeeee

True Love has Got Nothing to Do with Hips !!!

If a man keeeeeppppssssss  EXPLAINing why he loves & wants to marry you,
all he is trying to say is that:

As a result of some things he has seen in you & the qualities you have (that he sees) he wants to get down with you for ever...

but you & I know that TRUE LOVE has NO REASON, Its UNCONDITIONAL
& has NO STRINGS ATTACHED.
True Love has got nothing to do with hips, lips, fingertips & high cheek bones etc...
that TRUE LOVE is AGAPE (agapao) & ONLY GOD has the capacity to give that...
"for God so loved the world"

In a NUTSHELL...
A Spouse, who LOVES YOU MORE IN-SPITE of your MISTAKES, Misdeeds & weakness has tapped & living in Agape (TRUE GODLY LOVE)

...Love covereth a multitude of wrongs, abi?

So, cut your spouse some slack & be Gracious,  after-all didn't you receive FORGIVENESS too.
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To the UNMARRIED...
pls take it slow & get to know,


Since we know human frailty is unable to give 100% fresh & true love like God who gave His son,
lets all learn to be Patient with our Spouses / Fiancee-Fiance

NB: ...make it easier for people to love you more !!!

God is not a "Cheat", He is a REWARDER !!

God REWARDS those who who seek HIM
God is a REWARDER
He does not MANIPULATE neither is HE UNrighteous.
God is JUST.

He is FAITHULLY JUST & LOYAL to us
ESPECIALLY THOSE who are RIGHTEOUS.

God favors those who SEEK HIM with their HEART & MIND.
EVEN though HE is INVINCIBLE
HE HEARS the THOUGHTS & Orchestrations of OUR heart
&
HE  REWARDS ACCORDINGLY.

God REWARDS those who SEEK HIM, WAIT ON HIM & THOSE WHO TRUST HIM.
God is not a CHEAT...

He is a REWARDER...
He will REWARD you ACCORDINGLY !!!

God is not a fool
He looks down to see those who TRULY SEEK HIM.
He will keep in PEACE those whose HEARTS are STAYED ON HIM.

God is a REWARDER...
HE REWARDS those who DELIGHTS in HIM
those who WORSHIP (Adore) HIM
Not Complainers, Murmurers etc...
WORSHIPERS
God CHASERS.

#GodIsARewarder
#BeCheeringlyExpectant
©banjoORE

10 SIGNS YOUR WOULD -BE -SPOUSE "maybe"... #DYSFUNCTIONAL ?!

Dig right in..

1.  Your mum comes over from your country home to say hello to you in the city for a few days & she promptly sits on your lap right after greeting your mum ( she fails the familiar cue test to excuse son & mum )
where should she go? how about the porch, verandah, kitchen or take a walk ?

2. She comes to say hi after church on sunday, cooks, do the dishes & leaves out your sister & her friend's plate. ( they also came on a visit)

3. She insists on taking some of your calls ( particularly the numbers that are not stored on your device )

4. She scrolls through your Facebook friend's list & even helps you
unfriend & block a few pretty damsels.

5. She gets to your house, complains around, tidy up for you, do some laundry, visits the grocery store etc... and does more fussing..
brother, wahalaaaa (problems) you,ve gat to watch that Eve's daughter.
besides, I thought a lady is not supposed to do laundry, cooking etc... for the guy when are both not married ?
what if he has a washing machine? ahh, did you think I meant hand laundrying before? so, some sis wash jeans & dirty boXKers" with their hands before?
woooo, love is trully blind folded !

6. She already asking you if you gonna give her "cunnilingus" when you both get married.... Oh boy !!!  pray you are up to that task ( thought she is a virgin) or technical one. She should definitely not be active sexually before marriage.
Ohhh, if both of you are then its another different story entirely.
(this post is to enlighten my bros out there, hence... )

Guys you getting my drift...

7. She directly demands for sex from you & chides you when you are like
"but, we are not supposed to now"
watch it brother...

8. She already owes a lot of debt and this debts could have been avoided.
Am talking about money she borrowed to go spend vacation in Dubai whilst you are trying to raise some money to register your business name.. lol chaiiiii . see me see wahala.
you don enter one chance Oooo

9. She insists you both see her pastor somewhere in the mountainous regions of the South-West where they "PRESCRIBED" a 40 days dry fasting for you both as you prepare towards your wedding.
You are not allowed to shake, see each other alone unless the pastor is there or even take a major step without finding out from her spiritualist.
Sir, Sir , hmmmm   Sirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....
ee ba esee yin so roooo (communicate with your proverbial legs with which you entered the relationship.

10. She thinks facebook is demonic !!!

stay tuned for more !!!

Now, pls dont get me wrong.
Am not saying you should not marry your fiancee if she has the above qualities or more than few of them. Am just pulling you by the collar as a friend to get a 2nd and many other 2nd opinions just before you say "I DO"

Cheerio cheers with perry winkles on it !!!

®BanjoOre

KUDOS TO OUR SOLDIERS...

KUDOS TO OUR SOLDIERS... 

You are in the war front
fighting & defending us.
While we sit here running commentaries
on social media & on print / electronic media.

We even argue & measure how effective you are
while some of you get wounded or even die every day.
Brave Men/Women, weldone & Kudos to you.

Kudos!  Kudos!!  Kudos!!!

Kudos Soldiers
thank you for Defending
The Nation.

Kudos & may the ones who lost their lives defending this Nation
Rest in Peace, Amen.

Kudos !!!.

Winners dont TRULY Quit !!!

People who win & keeps winning
those who become successful & keeps getting better
are PEOPLE who have learnt to do things inspite of the fears they had

They tucked away their emotions,
rolled off bad memories
stood tall in the face of adversaries

They didn't gat the time to raise pity-party
they did what they could do & very well too (where.they.are)
they are not approval addicts
they have perfected the ART of Learning & Unlearning

Winners (successful people ) are surfers whose arms were bitten off by sharks (but they still took their surf boards & returned to the tumultuous sea).

They see themselves winning every time
they... come to your turf & even attempt to SNATCH a win when you are not prepared
They are Team Players

Winners are like the Germans who went to Brazil & dubbed them 10-0.(lol)
not minding if their people cried or not.
Successful people will step on your toes & tell you "Sorry" later ( lol )

People who succeed see OPPORTUNITIES & not EXCUSES
they ask "Why NOT " & not  why..

How many successful people do you know who hasnt gat some or all of these qualities?

Find that REASON to be a Winner (success)
Alwayyyyysss
®BanjoORE

Nothing Wrong With Sex... bur

There is nothing wrong with SEX especially in a marriage context 
hence that RING should remind "us" that when we said  "I DO " we also said "YES to sex " & of course YES to assisting in the kitchen ( ***yukkk, abi ? )

So, inspite of all the sermonising we should ask the question again & again...
Question : Why do men like sex ?
Answer   : Men were made & created to have the stronger desire for sex ( God put the desire in us, we did not invent it ourselves )

However control of this beautiful gift from God is of a very important essence to us as men. Control shows we are considerate, matured & Godlike ( talk is cheap abi? )
seriously control is important.

Will Marriage cure the frequency of Sexual Arousement or libido in men?
Sadly NO, it will not but it CAN HELP .

Today is not the day for a long discourse on this but...

Its important as humans ( God-fearing ) to create & put SPIRITUAL / moral FENCE (gate) against the wasteful & sinful use of our Sexual plus Emotional drive in a way that makes God happy hence creating the needed balance in our matrimonial homes.

NB: A word for the man whose wife hates sex, well if you were a teacher or lecturer & you have students who have problems in mathematics :
how do you help them over come the mathematics problem ?

You don't teach an Adult anything by abusing them physically or emotionally, you take your time & show them the importance of the course (sex ) and take time to passionately teach them with several tutorials where possible...
**Trust God will grant you more wisdom & strategy on this..

Enjoy...