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| Pst Yinka Ore |
Choosing you was #INTENTIONAL
and I have never looked back,
There aint no "had I known"
You are the exact #DEFINATION
of an "helpmate" / Life-Partner
Happy 10th Wedding Anniversary Yinka Ajiboye
Lets
Know More
Be More
and keep doing more.
I Love You dearlyyyyyyyyyyyy
Mwarhhhhhhhhhhhhh
#YinkaOre
Hi, bIN a while guys & I know it...
I am getting bored of blogging even tough I still love writing a looooottttt.
So, very soon am gonn get into Video bloging ( Its like saying in minutes what I ought to write about )
Why?
well, Why Not ?
Today's Menu
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Well, I have been "Speaking" actively for about 15yrs. so I tot to share a little of what I have learnt...
So, the Tips !!
dive in...
" 1. Ask yourself "WHAT EXACTLY DO I WANT PEOPLE TO (GET) TAKE AWAY FROM MY SPEECH ? pre-determine this.
2. CUT YOUR INTRODUCTION TO THREE MINUTES.... ( cos, your audience aint got no time )
3. DIVE INTO THE MENU IMMEDIATELY ( don't loose their attention)
SAY SOMETHING to make them wanna.make Eye Contact with you: then, Fire the first thoughts and REPEAT. REPEAT and kip REPEATING the Power Speeches / Phrases and all
4. Certainly LAND & FINISH WELL ( cut ramblings and STILL FOCUS on MAJOR MESSAGE )
"GRACEFULLY TELL THEM WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO GO & DO "
and dont forget to end Gloriously ( leave the exact taste you.wanna.leave in the mouth of your audience that will provoke the right actions hence justify your speech )
You are unique
classique
fantastic
and never a dullardstic
Special in your way
hence your creator is
Greatly to be praised
Priceless
and no doubt full of Graces
Have a Wonderful Birthday
and this Your NEW YEAR
is gonna be loaded...
I hear a sound of pleasant rains
on your behalf
So, Prepare to Enlarge your barns
expand your coast
'cos Something is About to Happeennnnnn.....
Love you baby girl
Happy Birthday big beautiful Model sister of mine.
Mwarrrhhhhhhh !!!
How does it help
how do we help
when "Christians" abuse & crucify homosexuals/ lesbians & transgenders?
especially ( in public.& on social media)
Maybe if we do that in our discipleship class or something it might be okay !!
but publicly? How have we helped?
are we not adding fuel to the raging inferno?
has our CRITICSMS birthed / showed the love of Jesus?
Am just wondering?
Are we mad at them or their sins?
dont we all know or have as friends, uncles, relatives etc...
people who
rape
beat up wifey?
incest
marry 9 year olds
drink to stupor
embezzle public funds
sleep with anything in skirts
rituals etc etc.....
Are we saying "ONE SIN" is greater than the.other & the other sins.should be "Excused" ?
Have we even "Prayed" for any of this people?
am not exactly innocent myself
but am #JustThinkingAloud.
#WWJD
Lets Magnify & stress the "The Love of Jesus Christ" moreeeeeee
If a man keeeeeppppssssss EXPLAINing why he loves & wants to marry you,
all he is trying to say is that:
As a result of some things he has seen in you & the qualities you have (that he sees) he wants to get down with you for ever...
but you & I know that TRUE LOVE has NO REASON, Its UNCONDITIONAL
& has NO STRINGS ATTACHED.
True Love has got nothing to do with hips, lips, fingertips & high cheek bones etc...
that TRUE LOVE is AGAPE (agapao) & ONLY GOD has the capacity to give that...
"for God so loved the world"
In a NUTSHELL...
A Spouse, who LOVES YOU MORE IN-SPITE of your MISTAKES, Misdeeds & weakness has tapped & living in Agape (TRUE GODLY LOVE)
...Love covereth a multitude of wrongs, abi?
So, cut your spouse some slack & be Gracious, after-all didn't you receive FORGIVENESS too.
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To the UNMARRIED...
pls take it slow & get to know,
Since we know human frailty is unable to give 100% fresh & true love like God who gave His son,
lets all learn to be Patient with our Spouses / Fiancee-Fiance
NB: ...make it easier for people to love you more !!!
God REWARDS those who who seek HIM
God is a REWARDER
He does not MANIPULATE neither is HE UNrighteous.
God is JUST.
He is FAITHULLY JUST & LOYAL to us
ESPECIALLY THOSE who are RIGHTEOUS.
God favors those who SEEK HIM with their HEART & MIND.
EVEN though HE is INVINCIBLE
HE HEARS the THOUGHTS & Orchestrations of OUR heart
&
HE REWARDS ACCORDINGLY.
God REWARDS those who SEEK HIM, WAIT ON HIM & THOSE WHO TRUST HIM.
God is not a CHEAT...
He is a REWARDER...
He will REWARD you ACCORDINGLY !!!
God is not a fool
He looks down to see those who TRULY SEEK HIM.
He will keep in PEACE those whose HEARTS are STAYED ON HIM.
God is a REWARDER...
HE REWARDS those who DELIGHTS in HIM
those who WORSHIP (Adore) HIM
Not Complainers, Murmurers etc...
WORSHIPERS
God CHASERS.
#GodIsARewarder
#BeCheeringlyExpectant
©banjoORE
Dig right in..
1. Your mum comes over from your country home to say hello to you in the city for a few days & she promptly sits on your lap right after greeting your mum ( she fails the familiar cue test to excuse son & mum )
where should she go? how about the porch, verandah, kitchen or take a walk ?
2. She comes to say hi after church on sunday, cooks, do the dishes & leaves out your sister & her friend's plate. ( they also came on a visit)
3. She insists on taking some of your calls ( particularly the numbers that are not stored on your device )
4. She scrolls through your Facebook friend's list & even helps you
unfriend & block a few pretty damsels.
5. She gets to your house, complains around, tidy up for you, do some laundry, visits the grocery store etc... and does more fussing..
brother, wahalaaaa (problems) you,ve gat to watch that Eve's daughter.
besides, I thought a lady is not supposed to do laundry, cooking etc... for the guy when are both not married ?
what if he has a washing machine? ahh, did you think I meant hand laundrying before? so, some sis wash jeans & dirty boXKers" with their hands before?
woooo, love is trully blind folded !
6. She already asking you if you gonna give her "cunnilingus" when you both get married.... Oh boy !!! pray you are up to that task ( thought she is a virgin) or technical one. She should definitely not be active sexually before marriage.
Ohhh, if both of you are then its another different story entirely.
(this post is to enlighten my bros out there, hence... )
Guys you getting my drift...
7. She directly demands for sex from you & chides you when you are like
"but, we are not supposed to now"
watch it brother...
8. She already owes a lot of debt and this debts could have been avoided.
Am talking about money she borrowed to go spend vacation in Dubai whilst you are trying to raise some money to register your business name.. lol chaiiiii . see me see wahala.
you don enter one chance Oooo
9. She insists you both see her pastor somewhere in the mountainous regions of the South-West where they "PRESCRIBED" a 40 days dry fasting for you both as you prepare towards your wedding.
You are not allowed to shake, see each other alone unless the pastor is there or even take a major step without finding out from her spiritualist.
Sir, Sir , hmmmm Sirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....
ee ba esee yin so roooo (communicate with your proverbial legs with which you entered the relationship.
10. She thinks facebook is demonic !!!
stay tuned for more !!!
Now, pls dont get me wrong.
Am not saying you should not marry your fiancee if she has the above qualities or more than few of them. Am just pulling you by the collar as a friend to get a 2nd and many other 2nd opinions just before you say "I DO"
Cheerio cheers with perry winkles on it !!!
®BanjoOre
People who win & keeps winning
those who become successful & keeps getting better
are PEOPLE who have learnt to do things inspite of the fears they had
They tucked away their emotions,
rolled off bad memories
stood tall in the face of adversaries
They didn't gat the time to raise pity-party
they did what they could do & very well too (where.they.are)
they are not approval addicts
they have perfected the ART of Learning & Unlearning
Winners (successful people ) are surfers whose arms were bitten off by sharks (but they still took their surf boards & returned to the tumultuous sea).
They see themselves winning every time
they... come to your turf & even attempt to SNATCH a win when you are not prepared
They are Team Players
Winners are like the Germans who went to Brazil & dubbed them 10-0.(lol)
not minding if their people cried or not.
Successful people will step on your toes & tell you "Sorry" later ( lol )
People who succeed see OPPORTUNITIES & not EXCUSES
they ask "Why NOT " & not why..
How many successful people do you know who hasnt gat some or all of these qualities?
Find that REASON to be a Winner (success)
Alwayyyyysss
®BanjoORE
There is nothing wrong with SEX especially in a marriage context
hence that RING should remind "us" that when we said "I DO " we also said "YES to sex " & of course YES to assisting in the kitchen ( ***yukkk, abi ? )
So, inspite of all the sermonising we should ask the question again & again...
Question : Why do men like sex ?
Answer : Men were made & created to have the stronger desire for sex ( God put the desire in us, we did not invent it ourselves )
However control of this beautiful gift from God is of a very important essence to us as men. Control shows we are considerate, matured & Godlike ( talk is cheap abi? )
seriously control is important.
Will Marriage cure the frequency of Sexual Arousement or libido in men?
Sadly NO, it will not but it CAN HELP .
Today is not the day for a long discourse on this but...
Its important as humans ( God-fearing ) to create & put SPIRITUAL / moral FENCE (gate) against the wasteful & sinful use of our Sexual plus Emotional drive in a way that makes God happy hence creating the needed balance in our matrimonial homes.
NB: A word for the man whose wife hates sex, well if you were a teacher or lecturer & you have students who have problems in mathematics :
how do you help them over come the mathematics problem ?
You don't teach an Adult anything by abusing them physically or emotionally, you take your time & show them the importance of the course (sex ) and take time to passionately teach them with several tutorials where possible...
**Trust God will grant you more wisdom & strategy on this..
Enjoy...
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| indecisions? |
"Letter To The President"
Uhh.. dear Mr. President
Whas happenin?
I'm writin you because, s**t is still real f**ked up in my neighborhood
Pretty much the same way, right around the time when you got elected
Ain't nothin changed
All the promises you made, before you got elected..
.. they ain't came true
[2Pac]
Tell me what to do, these ni**az actin up in the hood
Send mo' troops, dear Mr. President
(Me and my homies is wonderin what's goin on.. holla!)
Tell me what to do, these ni**az actin up in the hood
Send mo' troops..
Why should I lie, when I can dramatize?
ni**az fell victim to my lyrics, now traumatized
Simply by spittin I've been blessed given riches, enemies suspicious
cause I'm seldom in the company of bi**hes
Plus the concepts I depict, so visual, that you can kiss
each and every trick or bi**h, inside the s**t I kick
My heaviest verse'll move a mountain
Casualties in ma*s amounts, brothers keep countin
f**k the friendships, I ride alone
Destination Death Row, finally found a home
Plus all my homies wanna die, call it euthanasia
Dear Lord, look how sick this ghetto made us, sincerely
yours I'm a thug, the product of a broken home
Everybody's doped up, ni**a what you smokin on?
Figure if we high they can train us
but then America f**ked up and blamed up
I guess it's cause we black that we targets
My only fear is God, I spit that hard s**t
In case you don't know, I let my pump go
Get ?ride for M'Thulu? like I ride for Geronimo
Down to die, for everything I represent
Meant every word, in my letter to the President
Dear Mr. President, tell me what to do
These ni**az actin up in the hood, send mo' troops
(What should I do?)
Dear Mr. President, tell me what to do
These ni**az actin up in the hood, send mo' troops
#Words & lyrics by the Late Tupac Shakur
pls see the rest of the lyrics here:
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/2pac/lettertothepresident.html
the self opinionated: form opinions based on what they see, hear & how they feel & stick to their opinions doing all they can to make it air-tight (regardless of the eventual true state of things )
the conformers : goes with the most popular trends & just belong for what ever reasons they see is "okay"
the extremists : says & do things entirely different from what everybody has said or is saying. they can go too far from the norm.
the easy-goins : take life easy & just watch stuff from the distance , in the end they just do what sets them in a comfy zone (sometimes @ a peril )
the religious : they just do whatever has been prophesied or what they thought is in the book of revelations or book of the religious elders.
the opportunists : they look around & just harness the "stories" / realities for financial or positional leverage (fame & recognition)
the analysts : they explain all the school of thoughts, opinions & actions of other people leaving things more murkier than ever.
the confusionist : not interested in procedures, structures or parleys. they are basically commissioned to disrupt proactive proceedings & set progress aground (for financial & competitive reasons etc... )
the confused : they just don't know what is going on because there are so many versions & school of thoughts out there. ( they sit tight & mostly don't do anything )
the umpires : they see themselves as all knowing, and believe things wont settle until their opinions has been heard.
by no means an exhaustive list.
®Banjo Ore
which comes first?
1. Acomplishing a Goal or
2. Becoming a person of strong character ?
NB: The Grace to accomplish comes from the strength & wisdom we have GAINED / developed from #BECOMING who we should/ought to be.
We should consider our motives too.
So, the safest GOAL to set is the #GROWTH goal,
GROW first...
INVEST in YOU
yourself
It doesn't hurt to remain on the shelf for a while (in a sector) or generally speaking.
unless you wanna #BURN out before you start ?
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Oh yeahhh, we most. def. made.it and we gonn continue to
So, welcome to.2015 !!!
YIPPEEEEEEE.
Oh when is it not a great time to celebrate ?
Life is Good
God is GREAT
and we are much more grateful for His LOVE ova us.
Any ideas about how the NEW YEAR should proceed?
well,
sure
soon
will post lots...
but right now, got to get me started and in proper solid momentum too.
Stay tuned
and see you soon !!!
